In this edition, I want to bring up something I have discovered all too well over the last year while starting some new endeavors of my own. Sometimes the cheers and encouragement we receive come not from the people we expect to be there for us, but from total strangers. This thought-provoking reality raises questions about the nature of human connection, the power of empathy, and the role of personal expectations in our lives.
When we embark on a new journey, whether it be pursuing a passion, starting a business, or making a significant life change, we naturally anticipate support from those closest to us. We assume that our family and friends will be our biggest cheerleaders, offering unwavering encouragement and guidance. However, reality often paints a different picture. It is not uncommon to encounter skepticism, doubt, or even indifference (even in the silent form) from those we thought would stand by our side.
It’s important to know that you should not set expectations of those close to you, or you will surly live with disappointment daily.
Instead, amidst the absence of expected support, you’ll often find solace and motivation in the unexpected cheers from strangers. Strangers, who have no personal investment in our success or failure, can offer an unbiased perspective and a genuine belief in our abilities. Their support becomes a beacon of hope, fueling our determination to pursue our dreams.
But why do strangers seem more willing to cheer us on? Perhaps it is because they see a reflection of their own aspirations in our endeavors. They understand the courage it takes to step into the unknown and chase our dreams. In witnessing our bravery, they are reminded of their own potential and are inspired to root for us. Strangers often possess an innate empathy and a shared understanding of the struggles and triumphs that come with pursuing something new.
Moreover, strangers are not bound by preconceived notions or expectations. They have no prior knowledge of our past failures or limitations. This lack of familiarity allows them to see us through a lens untainted by judgment, enabling them to offer genuine support without the mindset of “what’s in it for me?” In their eyes, we are not defined by our past, but rather by the potential they see in us and themselves.
So, how do we “Make Sense” of this paradox of finding support from strangers while yearning for it from those closest to us? It begins with a shift in our perspective and an understanding that support can come from the most unexpected places. Instead of clinging to expectations, we can embrace the encouragement we receive. Whether it’s on occasion from those who know you, or the strangers who feel like your new friends.
Additionally, we can actively seek out communities and networks that align with our passions and aspirations. Engaging with like-minded individuals who share similar goals and dreams within your niche can create a support system that extends beyond our immediate circle. Through these connections, we can find the encouragement and guidance that keeps us motivated, even if it comes from unfamiliar faces.
By opening ourselves to the encouragement of others, we can fuel our determination, overcome disappointment, creating a path toward more success.
Even in a world that can often feel disconnected and divided, the willingness of strangers to offer support reminds us of the power of unity and the capacity for genuine human connection.
Remember this feeling and be the one who always supports loved ones and strangers in pursuing their dreams. Do not judge or put limits on those you can support. Respect and encourage their courage! Let’s all “make sense” out of that.
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